Wednesday, May 07, 2014

An Aching Leg.



Not so long ago. I am sitting in my front room, reading. My Favourite Son and Favourite Daughter are staying at my house for a few nights, there are three toothbrushes in the toothbrush glass in my bathroom instead of the usual lonely one and I’m feeling ok.

It is nine at night and my children have been asleep for an hour.

The door slowly opens.

Favourite Son: I’ve got an aching leg.

He hasn’t even opened his eyes yet and is tousled of hair and rumpled of pyjama.

Me: Come here son.

I gather him in my arms, he tucks his head under my chin and puts his arms around my neck. He’s nine now and such spontaneous displays are becoming increasingly rare. We head upstairs.

Six or seven years ago this was a regular occurrence; to the extent that his mother managed to convince herself he had rickets or something. I finally worked it out – he was finding himself half-awake as we all often do, disorientated, alone, in the dark and wanting only the proximity, touch, warmth, familiar smell and the gentle warm breath on his skin of someone he loved and trusted beyond question before he could rest.

So he’d tell us he had an aching leg. And we’d rub it better and kiss him and hug him and he’d go back to sleep.

It’s been at least five years since he’s had an aching leg. Tonight he is four hundred miles away from his mother and their familiar home, sleeping in a bed he uses rarely. So I 'get it'.

I put him back down in his bed.

Me: Just lay there a second, son. I’ve got some Magic Cream that’ll be perfect for this.

I don’t think he buys the age-old ‘Magic Cream’ placebo thing any more than I buy the ‘aching leg’ nonsense but it’s an important routine. Returning from the bathroom with the Tiger Balm, I roll up his pyjama leg and gently massage a small amount in.

Me: It’ll feel quite warm but it’s great for aching legs, ok?

He silently nods his head, eyes still closed. I give him a small hug and tuck him in.

Me: I love you.

Favourite Son: Love you too.

I place a gentle kiss on his forehead, and return to my front-room and my book.

And smile to myself. I suppose we all get an aching leg from time-to-time.

6 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I seriously hope that my sons have an aching leg now and then at that age! Oldest is only 2 and a half and the moments where I get to just hold him are so rare even now.

An American Ghost

12:18 am  
Anonymous looby said...

Me and my eldest (by five minutes) had one of those moments the other night. It's lovely, very precious, even more so because she's 15 and there are barriers now that there weren't years ago. It's your love, made clear and physical, and comforting, that works wonders that no medicine can do.

11:19 am  
Blogger auntiegwen said...

Simply beautiful

11:47 am  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Aw. That's just the sweetest.
-Jenertia

8:14 pm  
Blogger Twisted Scottish Bastard said...

Sweet.

I wish I had some magic cream for my aches of the heart.

7:24 pm  
Blogger Grace said...

<3

1:54 am  

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